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Self help books are among the most searched and most gifted books in India, and for a simple reason: a good one can change how you think about money, work, people and your own mind in a few evenings of reading. The problem is choice. There are thousands of titles, many of them repeat each other, and it is hard to know where to start.

This list keeps it simple. These are twelve self help books that have stayed in print for decades because readers keep finding them useful. For each one you will find what the book is about, who it suits best and what to take from it. Several are also available in Hindi, which is noted where it applies.

How to choose a self help book

Before the list, a short rule that saves a lot of wasted reading. Pick a book for the problem you have today, not for the person you hope to be in ten years. If you worry too much, start with a book on worry. If money slips through your fingers, start with a book on money habits. One book that you read slowly and actually apply is worth more than ten that you finish and forget.

• For mindset and confidence: start with numbers 1, 2 and 5 below.
• For money habits: start with numbers 1, 4 and 12.
• For dealing with people: start with numbers 3 and 11.
• For calm and inner strength: start with numbers 6, 8, 9 and 10.

1. Think and Grow Rich by Napoleon Hill

First published in 1937, Think and Grow Rich is built on Napoleon Hill's study of successful people of his time. Its core idea is that a clear, burning desire, backed by a definite plan and persistent action, is what separates people who achieve from people who only wish. The book lays this out in thirteen steps, including desire, faith, specialised knowledge, organised planning and persistence.

Best for: anyone starting a career or a business who needs direction. Take from it: write down exactly what you want, by when, and what you will give in return, then read it aloud every day.

2. The Power of Your Subconscious Mind by Dr Joseph Murphy

The Power of Your Subconscious Mind explains, in very plain language, how the thoughts you repeat to yourself shape your habits, health and results. Dr Murphy's method is simple: feed the mind with calm, positive, specific suggestions, especially just before sleep, and let it work on them. It is one of the easiest self help books to read, which is why it is so often a first book.

Best for: readers dealing with self doubt, fear or negative thinking. It is also available in Hindi as Aapke Avchetan Mann Ki Shakti.

3. How to Win Friends and Influence People by Dale Carnegie

If you read only one book on dealing with people, make it How to Win Friends and Influence People. Carnegie's advice sounds obvious until you try to follow it: do not criticise, give honest appreciation, become genuinely interested in others, remember names, listen more than you talk, and let the other person feel the idea is theirs. Every chapter is a short principle followed by real stories.

Best for: students entering working life, salespeople, managers and anyone who finds conversations difficult.

4. The Richest Man in Babylon by George S. Clason

The Richest Man in Babylon teaches money through short stories set in ancient Babylon. The lessons are few and hard to argue with: keep at least one tenth of all you earn, control your spending, make your savings work for you, protect what you have from loss, and keep improving your ability to earn. Because it is told as stories, even teenagers can read it comfortably.

Best for: a first book on personal finance. Hindi readers can pick up Babylon Ka Sabse Ameer Aadami.

5. As a Man Thinketh by James Allen

This is the shortest book on the list and one of the most quoted. In As a Man Thinketh, James Allen argues that character and circumstances grow out of thought, the way a garden grows out of what is planted in it. You can read it in an hour, and many readers return to it every year. It is also available in Hindi.

Best for: readers who want something short, calm and reflective rather than a list of techniques.

6. How to Stop Worrying and Start Living by Dale Carnegie

Carnegie's second great book is a practical manual for an anxious mind. How to Stop Worrying and Start Living offers tools you can use the same day: live in day tight compartments, ask what is the worst that can happen and accept it, keep busy, and do not fuss about trifles. The examples are dated, but the methods are not.

Best for: anyone who loses sleep over work, exams, money or health.

7. The Art of War by Sun Tzu

Written in China about 2,500 years ago as a guide for generals, The Art of War is read today by business leaders, sportspeople and students of strategy. Its best known ideas are to know yourself and your opponent, to win without fighting where you can, and to prepare so thoroughly that the result is decided before the contest begins.

Best for: readers interested in strategy, competition and leadership. Read a few lines at a time and think about how each applies to your own work.

8. Meditations by Marcus Aurelius

Meditations is the private notebook of a Roman emperor reminding himself how to live well. It is the best known book of Stoic philosophy. Marcus Aurelius keeps returning to a few ideas: you control your own mind and not outside events, do the task in front of you, do not be surprised by difficult people, and remember that life is short.

Best for: readers looking for steadiness under pressure. It works well as a book to keep on the bedside table and read one page a night.

9. Autobiography of a Yogi by Paramahansa Yogananda

Part life story and part introduction to yoga and meditation, Autobiography of a Yogi has introduced millions of readers around the world to Indian spiritual thought. Yogananda describes his childhood, his search for a teacher, his years with Sri Yukteswar and his journey to the West. It is a long book, and best read slowly.

Best for: readers curious about meditation and the spiritual side of self improvement.

10. The Prophet by Kahlil Gibran

The Prophet is a small book of poetic essays on the big subjects of life: love, marriage, children, work, joy and sorrow, freedom and death. It is not a how to book. It is a book to read when you need perspective, and it is one of the most gifted books of the last hundred years.

Best for: gifting, and for readers who like wisdom in a few beautiful lines.

11. The Quick and Easy Way to Effective Speaking by Dale Carnegie

Fear of speaking in front of people holds back many capable students and professionals. The Quick and Easy Way to Effective Speaking is Carnegie's step by step course: speak about what you know and care about, prepare by gathering more material than you need, open with a story, and practise at every chance.

Best for: students preparing for interviews and presentations, and professionals who need to speak in meetings.

12. The Science of Getting Rich by Wallace D. Wattles

Written in 1910, The Science of Getting Rich is a short, direct book about thinking and acting in a "certain way": hold a clear picture of what you want, be grateful, and give every person more in use value than you take from them in cash value. It influenced many later writers on success.

Best for: readers who liked Think and Grow Rich and want a shorter, sharper companion to it.

How to get real value from a self help book

Reading is the easy part. These habits turn a good book into a changed routine.

• Read with a pen. Underline the lines that strike you and write one sentence in the margin about how you will use them.
• Apply one idea at a time. Choose a single practice from a chapter and follow it for a week before moving on.
• Read ten pages a day. A steady ten pages finishes most of these books in two to three weeks.
• Re-read the best one. The second reading of a great book usually teaches more than the first reading of a new one.
• Talk about it. Explaining an idea to a friend or family member is the fastest way to remember it.

Common questions

Which self help book should a beginner read first? Start with The Power of Your Subconscious Mind or How to Win Friends and Influence People. Both are easy to read and give you something to practise from the first chapter.

Are self help books available in Hindi? Yes. Many of the classics on this list have Hindi editions, and some are also available in Tamil, Marathi, Bengali, Telugu and Malayalam.

Is it better to buy one book or a set? If you are new to the subject, buy one book and finish it. Sets make sense once you know you enjoy this kind of reading, or as a gift.

Where to go next

You can browse the full Self-Help shelf on Booksfactory for more titles and for regional language editions. Pick one book from this list today, read ten pages tonight, and write down one thing you will do differently tomorrow.